What is pom pom mom?

Pom Pom Mom is a relatively new and niche internet slang term that gained some traction in 2023 and 2024. It describes a specific type of mother, usually online, who is overly enthusiastic and supportive, often to the point of being perceived as performative or inauthentic.

The defining characteristic of a Pom Pom Mom is her effusive and often exaggerated displays of support for her children's (and sometimes other children's) achievements, activities, and even mundane aspects of their lives. This support is typically very visible, often shared on social media with abundant emojis, exclamation points, and gushing praise. The term often carries a somewhat negative connotation, suggesting that the mother's behavior is more about projecting an image of the "perfect" or "devoted" mom than genuinely supporting her child. Some might describe it as a form of online performance.

Key traits associated with Pom Pom Moms:

• Over-the-top Enthusiasm: Extreme excitement and praise for even minor accomplishments.
• Social Media Showmanship: Frequent posting about their children's activities and achievements.
• Potential for Inauthenticity: The perception that their enthusiasm is more about appearances than genuine feeling.
• Pressure on Other Parents: Creating an unrealistic standard of parental involvement and support.
• Comparison to Stage Moms: Though not necessarily as pushy, the term shares some similarities with the concept of a Stage%20Mom.

It's important to note that the term is subjective and context-dependent. What one person considers excessive, another may see as genuine enthusiasm. The term often sparks discussions about Parenting%20Styles and the pressures of social media on modern parenting.